Hershal, you may not yet realize the full import and significance of the gift that your lady friend has given you: a heart for sharing.
My wife and I donate money to the support of our church and some of the missionaries around the world. We also donate time simply praying in support of their mission, for their safety, etc.
As with Claes, I have donated gallons of blood to the Red Cross in the U.S. It may well be the one "gift of life" that you can give without giving up your own.
My wife donates time, and I donate equipment, to the
White Pine Stables Therapeutic Riding Center. They put special needs kids on horseback. The change in altitude can create enormous changes in attitude. Some of these kids' only words each week are spoken from the back of a horse. For my wife, this combines two of her great passions: ponies and children.
I spent many years tutoring middle school age children in an after school program in a disadvantaged section of our local metropolitan area. It was only a small part of an organization called
Urban Concern. For me, this combined two of my great passions: reading and children. It was tough work. However, I found that even helping one child advance from years behind to years ahead to be more than enough reward for
every bit of the effort involved.
You can fork over lots of cash (please do!) but I guarantee that you will laugh, enjoy, cry and sorrow more (LIVE!) if you share something you love with those who do not have the wherewithal to experience it without your help. I've also found that doing something for free that you are normally paid to do can bring about positive changes to your attitude about your chosen profession. Giving of yourself is far more rewarding to everyone involved, but most especially to the giver.