Why do you continue the concept of FEAR by condoning the supplier being too afraid to ask a simple question of Why? [is the comment made.] If the customer's auditor or third party auditor has a comment, he has no business being cryptic, forcing a supplier to seek third party (UNAFFILIATED) guidance.
Deming said REMOVE FEAR! and yet you folks are telling the supplier he SHOULD be afraid to ask questions on the spot (closing interview, anyone?) and not let his fear fester.
I simply can't understand your namby pamby acquiescence that suppliers should be afraid to raise a question. The question doesn't have to be confrontational, but it should be asked BEFORE the auditor leaves the building!
Again there seems to be a huge assumption made with the new words like FEAR, SHOULD be afraid, cryptic, forcing, namby pamby acquiescence.
The event is past and so there is no way we can recommend or guide the OP to ask the 'Why is the comment made' question now.
Yes, he could still ask the oversea's buyer about why the comment was made. No harm to also dig in and find out internally what one can do about something like the comment that was made, and the OP just made that here. I also believe he has got what he wanted. Hope the OP comes back.
I simply can't understand your namby pamby acquiescence that suppliers should be afraid to raise a question.
Assumptions again and a huge one. None can understand simply when one fails to get into the shoe of the other, and is firm on a stance.