Carl:
There are so many things in your last statement that I would like to comment on, but as I am on my coffee break, I will limit myself. There will be those who think I am nuts...
I have a theory, or maybe it is just a way of looking at things. Man has been trying for years to control the environment. In some ways we have. In the process, we have developed this environment in such a way that we are bombarded by influences to the extent that we have to block out a lot just to function. In a way the boob tube helps us do that - we sit and concentrate on that inanimate object to the exception of almost everything else. Our surroundings create a kind of rhythm, for lack of a better word.
In the outdoors, away from "civilization" the rhythm is different. When I go deer hunting, it takes me a good half hour - 45 minutes to "slow down". This is a fascinating world we live in, if we just take the time to sit and let the rhythm come to us. All of our man-made "noise" tends to hide that fact.
Taking your 8 year old daughter camping, on a "bear hunt" (remember that old kid's song)? Sounds to me like your priorities are aligned correctly. It must be very, very rewarding.
What's my point? Well, I think that our urbanization has a lot to do with the negative things you mentioned. The fact that we are living closer together than we were a century or so ago has actually driven us apart. We tend to value others less. Its sad.
Of course, that's just my opinion.