Michelle,
I am an AEA Lead auditor with a registrar and also work as a consultant. I have heard similar stories of auditors providing "consulting". Several of my consulting clients have changed their processes because the lead auditor recommended to make a change. The customers thought it would be more important to please the lead auditor than to do something that works for them. I got very frustrated when I heard about this practice but the only thing I did was to tell the customer that it was their choice to make the changes.
Also in the opening meeting, the AS lead auditor should be explaining the rules of the audit that includes "no consulting".
I am an AEA Lead auditor with a registrar and also work as a consultant. I have heard similar stories of auditors providing "consulting". Several of my consulting clients have changed their processes because the lead auditor recommended to make a change. The customers thought it would be more important to please the lead auditor than to do something that works for them. I got very frustrated when I heard about this practice but the only thing I did was to tell the customer that it was their choice to make the changes.
Also in the opening meeting, the AS lead auditor should be explaining the rules of the audit that includes "no consulting".