What is Romance?
To me romance is:
Pulling your beloved away from whatever mundane task is being performed at the moment and taking them into your arms, looking deep into their eyes and expressing your love for them and giving reasons why (reason's that are based not on the physical, but on who they are - their character).
Then following up with sharing in whatever mundane task that they were working on, or treating them to a night out/time alone with you.
During the alone times, take time to share your dreams - then even more importantly listen to theirs. [Sometimes I wonder what my wife has given up, in order to share life with me - and it makes me appreciate her love even more.]