Wes Bucey
Prophet of Profit
You're correct - I had the wrong definition of "flirting" from what you intended. In the parlance of HR and psychologists of different stripes, your idea of "flirting" (expressing one's potential/strength (even if there doesn't exist a necessity), to have the edge over the peers.) is what is commonly referred to as "Assertive presentation" where the person asserts his value (attractiveness) to target individuals in a manner intended to give the impression one is a competent, stable person (definitely NOT an ass kisser.) Note this is different from bragging or boasting or trying to hog the spotlight, but it also means one does not shy away from an opportunity to take credit for one's own accomplishments.Not sure if there is a Mis-Communication. Absence of Flirting has let me down on so many occasion. I have had the experience of losing it to the peers who apparently used it(flirting) to their advantage.
I am serious that Flirting would contribute significantly to one's success. I don't see it something in the lines of ass-kissing.
Note: By *Flirting*, what I mean is expressing one's potential/strength (even if there doesn't exist a necessity), to have the edge over the peers. Unlike ass-kissing, I don't see anything wrong with the technique.
I can also see where failure to continually and effectively keep one's accomplishments in view can provide an opportunity for peers who are more focused on flirting.
Like all such activities, it is a learned skill or technique and loses power when it lapses or is only applied in a sporadic manner.