Hello there!
Have you calculated an uncertainty analysis for your process? I would start with that. Then, go four times that much.
It would also depend on the previous history of this balance, what range it is being used at, precision, etc.
As far as the acceptance tolerance, again, depending on the history of the balance, I would set the tolerance at the process tolerance. The only time the user should be notified of a failure is when it will affect their process.
When you say .08g, the balance can be .07 grams off and not affect anything? Or do you need to take 1/2 of the .08grams, and state that .05g might affect the process? Does that make sense? Let me know if it doesn't. I'm asking if the .08 is .08 heavy and/or .08 light; or .04 heavy and/or .04 light.